Be The Force to Keep The Oddball Rolling – Kick Me Off to a New Destination!

•February 5, 2010 • Leave a Comment

Being a Philippine passport holder is no joke. Aside from money and time, this becomes one of the major hindrances to nomads, like me, with feet itching to see the world and at the same time living in a country where they have to work real hard just to be able to break free from those scrutinizing eyes of an immigration officer and the red flag that hangs over their heads when trying to acquire a tourist visa to another country.

Nevertheless, having a whole new perspective on things, I looked into the list of countries I can visit without much hassle in obtaining a visa and I started to develop a strong desire to explore Latin American countries particularly Brazil, Peru, Cuba and Costa Rica after all the good things I’ve heard about these places from people I personally know. This is the reason why I jumped at the chance to participate in this contest sponsored by Gap Adventures and Nomadic Matt as they are giving away a free 2-week trip to Costa Rica! Woot! There’s definitely no need to say how awesome it is to put a prize like this up for grabs, but do you want to know the best thing about it? Well, it’s not only limited to certain citizens of the world! Which means that I can actually have it and at this point I can already take comfort in the fact that I am longer bound to terms and conditions – phew, thank goodness! But then I need to get more luck in this life by taking more chances!

And here I am, taking another shot. I guess I was never meant to give up trying after all!

So, why me? Let’s see… Maybe my small frame might give you the impression that I am a weakling, but I can lug around a 9kg backpack with an extra laptop bag stuffed with all the necessary gadgets. The first time I went on a solo trip abroad was around this time two years ago when I took a quick circuit of 6 countries in South East Asia. I have a detailed blog about the trip here: http://bit.ly/c5BhJ6 . It was madness to cram it all up in one month, but I managed to maximize my time and put it all together! Since then, I see to it that I get to a new destination at least twice a year. I am a travel writer wannabe who tends to provide entertainment at the expense of my own misfortunes and continuously struggles to manage the impossible task of encapsulating all the great memories I want to share. Traveling gives you a limitless range of experiences accumulated through meeting new friends, letting your heart lead you where to go and taking your adventurous spirit with you to enjoy life as we know it.

Why Costa Rica? I am generally interested in learning about other cultures and traditions, but whenever I find a place where I can actually relate to what people are accustomed to, I blend naturally. Philippines have more Spanish influence on language, cuisine/food, culture (festivals, art appreciation), religion, individual names, etc. – these are the results of almost 400 Spanish colonial years. That is why I can discover a lot of similarities between Pinoys and Ticos – not to mention love for the beaches!

When you’re young and smart, resolute and fearless, independent and adaptable, some people will be afraid to give you a break because you are seen as a threat. But no matter what course my life would take, I will carry with me these qualities real survivors have.

P.S.

What do I hope to get out of it? Fun-filled experience, enriched knowledge, ecotourism awareness, new friends I’d keep for life and a pack of converted travel-junkie followers! :D

Essentials in a Woman’s Life

•February 3, 2010 • Leave a Comment

“A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ….
enough money within her control to move out
and rent a place of her own even if she never wants
to or needs to…
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ….
something perfect to wear if the employer or date of her
dreams wants to see her in an hour…
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE …
a youth she’s content to leave behind….
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ….
a past juicy enough that she’s looking forward to
retelling it in her old age….
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE …..
a set of screwdrivers, a cordless drill, and a black
lace bra…
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ….
one friend who always makes her laugh… and one who
lets her cry…
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ….
a good piece of furniture not previously owned by anyone
else in her family…
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ….
eight matching plates, wine glasses with stems, and a
recipe for a meal that will make her guests feel honored…
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ….
a feeling of control over her destiny…
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW…
how to fall in love without losing herself..
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW…
how to quit a job,
break up with a lover,
and confront a friend without ruining the friendship….
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW…
when to try harder… and WHEN TO WALK AWAY…
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW…
that she can’t change the length of her calves,
the width of her hips, or the nature of her parents..
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW…
that her childhood may not have been perfect…but it’s over…
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW…
what she would and wouldn’t do for love or more…
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW…
how to live alone… even if she doesn’t like it…
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW…
whom she can trust,
whom she can’t,
and why she shouldn’t
take it personally…
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW…
where to go…
be it to her best friend’s kitchen table…
or a charming inn in the woods…
when her soul needs soothing…
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW…
what she can and can’t accomplish in a day…
a month…and a year…”
Pamela Redmond Satran

The Unsuspecting Victim

•January 21, 2010 • Comments Off

“I’m done with it. I don’t want to depend on anyone here anymore. I want to start something on my own and gone are the days when I would wait around for people to decide where my life should go. It’s keeping me in chains – emotionally. Today I started thinking about the things I’ve realized long ago and today it’s reminding me again to move on and forget about the people I don’t need in my life.”

It’s meant for my shrink – my Mom. But since I accidentally sent it to myself… maybe it was really meant for me. So I can keep telling myself the same words over and over again until I do something about it.